2013 – 16: Badminton + Imbalance

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Last weekend, the American School hosted five other international schools from the Middle East for a badminton tournament.

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Here’s the school mascot with Kayla, Greg and good friend, neighbor, and teammate, Nidhi.

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Kayla played continually over the 3-day event.  The competition was intense.

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It was a good experience for all.

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At the conclusion, we rushed off to Dilli Haat for some shopping with our guests from Dubai (a French Canadian and Australian).  The worldliness of the people we meet is enriching.

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Living in India, it’s quickly apparent this is a male-dominated society. There is a cultural preference for male children which leads to some extreme measures.  India has about 15 million “extra” men between the ages of 15 and 35.  Our state of Haryana has the most skewed gender ratio in India, 861 females for every 1,000 males. 

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This imbalance creates safety issues for women.  Measures are taken to provide some comfort, for example, a woman’s only taxi with a female driver. 

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Separate cabins for women on the metro.

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Police are becoming more visible.

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Police and women’s help line phone numbers were recently painted on the back of auto rickshaws. 

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But India still has a long way to go.  Protests erupted this week in Delhi as another shocking rape case rocked the world (the victim is only five). 

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Safety is on our minds.  We are cautious and never take our safety for granted.  ts

2013 – 15: Prom

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Kayla had a busy Saturday last week.  Her day started at 7:00 am with ACT college testing, followed by library research, and then the prom.

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Her date, 16-year old Amir, was born in Malaysia and has lived in Sri Lanka, Tokyo and now India for the past three years (his father works for the embassy).  His family returns to Malaysia this summer where he’ll complete his senior year of high school.

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The prom was a 3-hour event held at a Delhi hotel ballroom.  Here are the guys…

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…and the girls.

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And together, they create a Facebook-friendly pose.

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The prom was followed by a falsely-named “sleep over” where no sleeping took place.  An exhausted Kayla returned home Sunday morning, which was just in time for…

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…Lynda’s birthday.

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We celebrated at a local hotel restaurant.

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Here we are with the hotel greeter.

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For a birthday bonus, we stopped at our local supermarket to visit the dog who recently gave birth to about a dozen pups.

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This is their home.

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Tuesday, a 7.8 earthquake hit the Iran / Pakistan border.  1500 kilometers away, we felt it here in Delhi,

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Here’s the view from the 14th floor of our office as people exited nearby buildings.  The quake was a 45 second “roller” (Californian’s understand this reference).

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Stefan and Iris visited the office this week during their search for local housing.  Welcome to India!

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Thursday brought two new additions to our home.  We are hosting two girls from the Dubai American Academy for this weekend’s badminton tournament.

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And in typical Indian spirit, they were welcomed by our resident monkeys.

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The American School is hosting several teams this weekend.  Kayla is on the right in this fiercely fought badminton doubles match.  Enjoy your week.  ts

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Bonus photo (from February):  Here’s the Wanaque gang visiting Kayla in Brooklyn.

2013 – 14: Asian Exploration, part 2

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Picking up from last week, we departed Vietnam and sailed the South China Seas for Hong Kong.

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We rode a tram up to a mountaintop vantage point to get a close look… at the fog.

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But less than 20 minutes later, the skies cleared.  With 7 million people, Hong Kong is highly compact.

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Formerly a British colony for 156 years, Hong Kong was returned to China in 1997.  It is now part of “one country with two systems.”  Hong Kong maintains its own currency (at a different exchange rate from the Chinese Yuan), and preserves the British legacy of left-side-of-the-road driving (there is a cross-over point to the right when driving to mainland China). 

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Here is a BMW dealer which is apparently very successful.  We witnessed an extremely high concentration of BMW’s on the roads.

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We visited a Tao temple, which is completely surrounded by high-rise towers… 

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…and followed the tradition of lighting incense.

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Then it was back on board to depart Hong Kong harbor at dusk.

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Our next stop was Xiamen, on mainland China.

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We noticed a wide variety of fresh seafood and concluded the Chinese will eat anything that comes from the ocean.

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Sidewalks are swept by hand using a tree branch.

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We witnessed multiple couples posing for wedding pictures…

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… and not everyone chose white.

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Small world.  Riding on our tour was a “neighbor” from Ridgewood, New Jersey (her 19 year old son is attending Bergen Community College).

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Chinese Yuan features Mao Zedong and exchanges at 6.2 to the US dollar (this is $16).

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Even communists have succumbed to American capitalism.

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After another day’s journey, we docked in Shanghai, our final destination.  At 23 million people, Shanghai is China largest city.  The downtown financial center materialized during the 1990’s with economic reform and foreign investment.

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We visited the iconic TV tower which dominates the skyline.

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We were fortunate to have a fairly clear day (smog is typically prevalent).

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We visited the old French quarter…

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… and found more American capitalism…

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…as well as German influence.

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It’s almost spargel season!

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At lunch, our menu was presented via an iPad with photos of each entree.  They offered a wide variety of choices including chicken feet.  We concluded the Chinese food we’ve consumed in the past has been “Americanized.” 

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Chairman Mao Zedong “liberated” China in 1949, ushering in the communist era.  After decades of isolation, China moved to a socialist market economy (state capitalism) blending government control into the private sector.  This opened the door for the west…

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… including MINI.

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Die Hard 5 was playing at the local cinema.

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Shanghai has a nice blend of old and new cultures.

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We visited a Buddhist temple in the heart of the city…

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… and paid our respects.

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We learned about Confucius, who lived 2500 year ago.  His philosophical thinking teaches morality and proper social relationships, and is just as relevant today.  Confucius says, learning without thought is labor lost; thought without learning is perilous.  Confucius says, a gentleman is slow in word and prompt in deed.

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Nearby, Yu Gardens is beautiful and charming. 

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We thoroughly enjoyed Shanghai and would like to return someday.

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This concludes the highlights of our Asian exploration where we maximized every minute of the spring break holiday.  From Singapore to Vietnam, to Hong Kong, to Xiamen, to Shanghai and back to Delhi… it was a jam-packed week full of new cultures and adventures.  Enjoy your week.  ts

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Bonus photo:  In heels, Kayla dwarfs me.

2013 – 13: Asian Exploration, part 1

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We’ve been anxious to explore Asia, and took full advantage of spring break during the last week of March. Asia is the world’s largest continent (more than four times the size of Europe) and home to 60% of the world’s population. 

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We went in search of an efficient method to experience as many different cultures as possible.  We were fortunate to find a cruise ship making its seasonal repositioning from the southern to northern hemisphere for the summer months. Our journey started just north of the equator in Singapore.

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Singapore’s is known for unique architecture.

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The Marina Bay Sands Hotel has 1,500 rooms through its 3 towers, which is topped with a “ship.”

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Here’s an Internet photo of the hotel at dusk to get a good sense of the design. 

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From the top, the “traditional” skyline is visible…

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…as is the port, the busiest in the world.

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Here’s the infinity pool which spans all three towers.

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It’s a cliché, but so what.  We enjoyed a Singapore Sling in Singapore.

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It was extremely hot and humid, so we were ready to get started.

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Formerly ruled by the British, Singapore is a city-state made up of 63 islands which received independence from Malaysia in 1965.  Home to 5+ million people, it is the second most densely populated country in the world.

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Our next stop was Vietnam and Ho Chi Minh City (known as Saigon during my youth).  Pulling into the port, this was our first impression. I thought we were in Newark (New Jersey residents will understand this reference).

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I was surprised to see American vehicles on the road, including Fords and Chevys.

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Colonel Sanders has penetrated the market.

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American references were everywhere…

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… even amongst the common man.

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The city is very modern…

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…and full of life.

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Vietnam became a French colony in 1858, which lasted nearly 100 years.  After WW II, the French were targeted in a war for independence and finally pulled out in 1954.  The country was divided with the communist North siding with Russia, while the South installed a dictator who was propped up by the US.  He was later executed in a 1963 coup d’état.   

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The US began sending advisors, then troops to counteract North Vietnam’s attempt at unification.  By 1965, our military personnel swelled to 500,000 and we were mired in the Vietnam War (it’s known as the American War there).  This is the Presidential Palace.

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Remnants of the war are on display in the palace basement.  As a young teen-ager I remember seeing the newspaper which listed the draft by random order of birthdays, and I worried about the day I would turn 18 and be drafted.

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The war was extremely unpopular in the US and fought on the cold-war principle of ‘communism is bad, democracy is good.’  I remember studying the ‘Domino Theory’ in school.  This Eisenhower-coined phrase created fear that if South Vietnam fell to communism, so would all of southeast Asia.

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After the loss of 58,000 American lives, the US finally pulled out in 1973 and left the South Vietnamese to fend for themselves and the war continued without us.  In 1974, President Richard Nixon resigned under pressure from the Watergate scandal and in 1975, North Vietnam launched a full scale invasion.  They anticipated a two year campaign, but the Southern army quickly crumbled.  Within a month, troops were pressing into Saigon. 

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I remember President Gerald Ford making a half-hearted attempt to garner support, but no one in the US had any stomach to re-engage.  The focus was evacuation.  I remember this image…

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… and this image of a northern tank crashing through the Presidential Palace gates on April 30, 1975.  The war was over.  “Liberation” is the word used in Vietnam. 

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Here are the Presidential Palace gates today.

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During this trip, I read two books on the war, and I highly recommend this one, “The Girl in the Picture.”

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Who can forget this 1972 image?  Kim Phuc survived her burns from a misplaced napalm bomb. She is now married with two children living in Canada.

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Here’s Vietnam 4 decades later. I was absolutely stunned by what I saw.

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I kept saying to myself, I can’t believe I’m in Vietnam.

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We saw plenty of luxury cars including BMW, Audi, Lexus and Mercedes.  Here’s a Bentley parked in front of a Porsche.

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I never would have expected this.

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Introduced by the French during colonial times, Christianity is still practiced today.

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We took a rickshaw ride through the streets…

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… and saw plenty of tributes to Ho Chi Minh (after the war, Saigon was renamed Ho Chi Minh City to honor the northern architect for reunification). 

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Growing up during the continual violence of the Vietnam War, the weekly reports of enemy killed vs. our own, the Tet Offensive, escalation into Cambodia, the relentless bombing, anti-war protests, Kent State and the subsequent reunification under communism, I never in my life imagined I’d visit Vietnam.  This was an unforgettable trip to see the American War from the Vietnamese perspective.  Today, they enjoy Americans (more specifically, American dollars).  Ho Chi Minh City is very modern and progressive.  We’d like to return some day.  Look for part 2 of our journey next week.  ts